mere acoording tan karni chahidi ae...eni parhayi kiti ae te fer j ghre ee bethna c tan parhayi di lorh he nai c
yeah.. very true.. ghar de ne ene paise lake padaya.. ki fayada j end ch tusi ghar di safai te rotiya e bnaunia. I'm sorry if that sounds rude. Par there are many factors..
- Personal Will - Bahut kudiya dont like to work. They say ona to ni job hundi..ona ne aish karni aa... and its not that only rich girls think so.. its the general perception. There are many girls from the families with finance issues, who want to sit at home and do domestic work. There are girls from very well off families, who dont need to work for money, but still they do.
- Joint Family - Girl's family, especially the in-laws family play very important role in this decision. J kudi job karni chaunhndi aa her husband should be supportive. J husband ne kehta k koi lod ni job karn di.. gal othe e khatm ho jandi. Husband supportive aa but in laws ni ready.. they want her to be at home..do domestic work, take care of family, make kids, be good bahu. Ethe ki problems aundia apa sareya nu e pta.. if she still works ta v problems if she doesn't ta v.. In case, family has no issues, which generally happens jdo female member of family is already working, it could be mom-in-law or sister-in-law, you wont have any pressure for kids as well. So generally everything goes smooth.
- Nuclear Family - In case, couple add rehnda ta generally job related problems bahut ghat hundia..generally jo main observe kita, first of all mostly, or we can say 90% separate ta job/work kar k e rehnde hone.. so ethe koi issues ni.. But, once you have child, what then..? You dont have your family here with you to take care of the child, unless they move in. At this stage kine Husband-Wife de vich problems start ho jandia. Mutual understanding da role ethe play hunda i guess sab ta jada. If wife is ok job quit karn lai..she wants to take care of her child.. all goes well. If they both really need to work for any reasons and they know that k us to bina sarna ni.. they'll definitely plan out some alternative... family nu bula sakde apne kol, creche is another option, ik full time helper rakh sakde ghar may be hor v options hon hun dimag ch ni aa rea. so matlab all goes well at the end. How child is raised in this situation, us nu proper time milda k nai.. (those are again divergent issues.. i think meri post bahut lambi ho gai aa.. so i should stop here )couple te depend karda. The line could divert both ways..
Ya wife doesn't want to leave her job, dont want to sit at home but husband wants her to quit it and take care of the child.. ethe ho gya problems wala silsila start and it goes on and on..
P.S. This is just my opinion. What i think..what i've observed. So please dont take it other way