Female Foeticide - Kyu mardiya ne kudiya?

[rav17]

bhabbo poems parh reha c , net te.....

[japjeevsingh]

I got touched by this video...
A touching song on Honor Killings in Punjab... Must Watch...

[RoohPunjabi]

mere mutabak main reason isda eh hunda vi kuriya di zimevari zyada hundii.
how many of us feel safe going alone anywhere? raat nu koi avdi dhee nu kite tor ni sakda ikali nu,,kyun?
india vich or duniya vich rapes di ginnti kini haii,,or is gall da dar ustoh vi darouna haii.
koi munda kuri gharo bhaj jaan, munde da ta patani par sare kuri vare gal karde, n usde ghardeya di izzat kakh ni rehndii
koi kuri bas adde te khari hove munde usde val chaakde rehnde aa
bus vich koi kuri ja rahi hove,,guys looking at her or aive gavaara vaang behave karde
we say kuri munde vich koi fark ni but in actuall farak haii. apni society hee ehdha di hai,,,
baaki most loki ehdha sochde vi kuri ne ta viah karvakay sauhri chali jana and munde na ta tuhada naam age vadhouna...
and iam pretty sure eh ehdha hee rehna boht saala tak.

Sadly this is true.
Sade smaaj vich unj ta kehnde han, ki aurat da bahut vada rutba hai, bhar reality vich kadi una nu barabar de hak milde ?
Jado munde vehle bahar raatan tak ghumde firde han, ppl say: "munde ya, khaande peende ghar de", how cheap these excuses are to hide the lack of education. Kiu koi kuri bahar kalli nahi ja sakdi araam nal? Why do many unconscionably men have whistle/stare at them. What do they do when it comes to their own wive, daughters or sisters?

Now take Lohri for instance: if a boy is born, parties are given, why not for girls aswell? Many ppl still assume that boys only, are able to earn wealth for their family, that boys only would continue with the honour of the family.
There are thousands of cases in which these thoughts have counter evidence.
And there are also many names in history that show that women are no less than anyone else.
Ik hor gal : Is it adequate how many young women are portrayed in media? Ajj kal de geetan te filma vich aurata nu "object" di tarah treat janda hai ki nahi?
Pls, dasso, sehmet ho ki nahi.

Do let girls live up to their ideals, let them reach the heights in education which they aspire. Regarding this I'd like to report abt a case, main kuch hi dina vich ik topic samne le ke aunga.

galtiaan li maafi chaunda han.

Sunny

[sartaaj]

Actually log Taan bhrun hatya karde ne ya dgeeyaan jamman to taan darde ne kyonke jimmedari bahut jyada wadh jandi hai parents di je kudi paida ho jave,kyonke sabh jaande ne bi kudi nu hamesha apni surakkhya layi ik sahara chahida hai,pehlan parents fer husband... Eh mentality khud kudiyaan di hai.. horaan di es ch koi galti nahi... Je kudiyaan apne aap nu prove karan ke asin kise ton ghatt nahi taan shayad bhrun hatya warga kalank Indian samaaj de matthe ton hat javega... Female foeticide waaste mai females nu hi sabh to jyada doshi samjhda haan..kyonke jadon kise ghar ch kudi jammdi hai odo jananiyaan hi sabh to jyada haye-tauba kardiyaan ne.... Es kuriti nu khatam karan waste sabh ton jyada jaruri hai ke khud female's apni soch nu improve karan te apne aap nu prove karan ke jindagi jeen layi ohna nu kise sahare di jarurat nahi....
Kayi lokaan ne aethe keha ke Mundyaan karke kudiyaan nu neeveei paa ke turna painda hai....... shayad ohna ne es gall te kade changi tarah vichar nahi kita..... kudiyaan mundyaan karke neevi pa ke nahi turdiyaan ,shayad eh ohna de andar di kamjori ya fer apne aap nu Abla samjhan di feeling hai jo oh sir utha ke agle nu jawab nahi dindiyaan...... je kudi strong hai taan kise di ki majaal bi kudi nu kuch keh jaave......Eh Kehna ke "Male's nu apni soch nu badalna chahida" naal eh sabit Hunda ke Kudoyaan Respect lain layi male's te Depend ne.... Respect kise nu keh ke nahi litti jandi oh khud kamauni paindi hai.......... Te eh kamm kudiyaan nu aap karna paina hai...nahi taan shayad hamesha ehi halaat rehange jo hamesha ton chalde aaye ne....................

[RoohPunjabi]

Actually log Taan bhrun hatya karde ne ya dgeeyaan jamman to taan darde ne kyonke jimmedari bahut jyada wadh jandi hai parents di je kudi paida ho jave,kyonke sabh jaande ne bi kudi nu hamesha apni surakkhya layi ik sahara chahida hai,pehlan parents fer husband... Eh mentality khud kudiyaan di hai.. horaan di es ch koi galti nahi... Je kudiyaan apne aap nu prove karan ke asin kise ton ghatt nahi taan shayad bhrun hatya warga kalank Indian samaaj de matthe ton hat javega... Female foeticide waaste mai females nu hi sabh to jyada doshi samjhda haan..kyonke jadon kise ghar ch kudi jammdi hai odo jananiyaan hi sabh to jyada haye-tauba kardiyaan ne.... Es kuriti nu khatam karan waste sabh ton jyada jaruri hai ke khud female's apni soch nu improve karan te apne aap nu prove karan ke jindagi jeen layi ohna nu kise sahare di jarurat nahi....
Kayi lokaan ne aethe keha ke Mundyaan karke kudiyaan nu neeveei paa ke turna painda hai....... shayad ohna ne es gall te kade changi tarah vichar nahi kita..... kudiyaan mundyaan karke neevi pa ke nahi turdiyaan ,shayad eh ohna de andar di kamjori ya fer apne aap nu Abla samjhan di feeling hai jo oh sir utha ke agle nu jawab nahi dindiyaan...... je kudi strong hai taan kise di ki majaal bi kudi nu kuch keh jaave......Eh Kehna ke "Male's nu apni soch nu badalna chahida" naal eh sabit Hunda ke Kudoyaan Respect lain layi male's te Depend ne.... Respect kise nu keh ke nahi litti jandi oh khud kamauni paindi hai.......... Te eh kamm kudiyaan nu aap karna paina hai...nahi taan shayad hamesha ehi halaat rehange jo hamesha ton chalde aaye ne....................

Bhaji you're right saying that asking respect from men underlines the alleged "weakness" of women and the unrighteousness within our society.
And of course girls will have to fight on their own to prove themselves. But honestly, how many girls are given the chance to pursue higher education or how many girls do fight for their rights to pursue education?
Many of them simply assimilate, and accept the unjustified "rules of the society", by doing so they accept their own defeat... Atte bahut sariyaa kuriya ape hi dependent rehna chaundia han, dependent on men

Jina kuriya nu mauka dita hi nahi janda, una nu puri koshish ta karni chahidi hai, hakk lene di! Je darrdia hi raiya, samaaj ne una di awaaz nu hameshaa dabaai hi rakhna.
Atte Jinaa kuriyaa nu mauka milea hai, kuch kar-ke dikhane da, oho apne aap nu sabit karne da poora jatan karan, naa-ke galat kamma vich pen.

Rights are rarely granted or given, rights presuppose personal commitment and struggle, not necessarily by violence but in an intellectual way.


Sunny

[scratchlikeme]

[rane]

nice one @scratchlikeme

[sss_rc]

ਧੁੰਧਲਾ ਸੱਚ ਦਿਖਾਉਂਣ ਲਈ ਮਿਹਰਬਾਨੀ ਬਾਈ ਸਿੰਹਾਂ..

[RoohPunjabi]

[quote="scratchlikeme"]
satirique but it tells how the tendency is looking like ....

[anakhi]

Female - Male ratios across India according to the recent census results. Not sure about the accuracy of the census but it should give a relative idea. Punjab fares quite badly compared to the rest of India and surprisingly Chandigarh is even worse. Punjab's ratio is 876 compared to the national 933....meaning that for every 1000 males, there are only 876 females

[Sarvar_Gill]

In advanced states like Haryana and Punjab, many people come from backward states like UP and Bihar, these immigrants are mostly males with their families back in their home states.
In Ludhiana, I have seen many people holding two voter cards, one for their home town in Bihar and other for Punjab.

And the reason why South Indian states have high proportion of females, is basically because of their matriarchal social systam.

[supneet brar]

sahi aa ji

[jott marwaha]

Female foeticide is a shame and a very serious challenge.Female foeticide is like one of the most heinous crimes imaginable on this planet.It is a slur on the name of our India and some more must be done to check it as despite efforts to get rid of it , it is continuing....awaz uthao plz

[dollysandhu]

but to save a girl child just to stop your guy becoming a gay seems weird to me..lol... there are plenty of reasonable factors that can be considered...

[Sarvar_Gill]

Diary of a Baby:
15 June: I get attached with ovary.
17 June: I am a tissue now.
30 June: Mom said to dad, "you are going to be a father." Mom and Dad are very happy !!
15 July: My food is what my mom eats.
15 Sept: I can feel my heartbeat.
14 Oct: I have little hands, legs, head and a stomach.
13 Nov: Today I was in an ultrascan. Wow ! I am a girl.
14 Nov: I was dead ! My Mom and Dad killed me.

Why ? Is it just because I was agirl ?

People love to have a Mother, a Wife and offcourse a Girlfriend too, then why not a Daughter ?

[5jabiportal]

Did anyone notice Daman and Diu has a sex ratio of 710:1000 thats the lowest.

@Sarvar, yes you're absolutely correct. How can a migrant that is not a permanent resident get a voters card and a ration card and also get enumerated in the census twice once in his home state with his family and again in Punjab. If you consider the 1.5 million migrant labour that is in Punjab at any given time almost all of them male there is at least a discrepancy of 50 in the sex ratio in Punjab i.e overcounting males by 50 per 1000. So the real sex ratio should be around 916, still low but probably the highest Punjab has ever had if you look at the stats from the last 100 years the ratio increased only in 71 and 81 before that it was low as well and has declined in the last two censues as well for obvious reasons.

Here is the good news though:

Punjab sees overall increase in sex ratio IANS

Saturday, 09 April 2011

CHANDIGARH: Punjab, which is known for its skewed sex ratio, has registered an increase in the number of girls per 1,000 boys as per the provisional population totals released here Friday.


In 2011, Punjab's sex ratio stood at 893 whereas in 2001, it was only 876. Hoshiarpur district has the highest sex ratio of 962 whereas Bathinda has the minimum sex ratio at 865 - down from 870 in 2001.

"Many initiatives have been taken to improve the sex ratio in the state and results are visible in the provisional data. Our overall literacy rate has also increased from 69.7 to 76.7 per cent," Chief Secretary S.C. Agrawal told reporters after releasing the report.


About the reasons behind the minimum sex ratio of Bathinda district, Agrawal said: "Bathinda's sex ratio declined because of many reasons. There is a refinery, where around 25,000 to 30,000 male workers, who have migrated from other places, work. So they have increased the number of males in the district."

Meanwhile, the child sex ratio (between 0-6 years of age) in Punjab has seen a good increase. It was recorded at 846 whereas in 2001 it was only 798.

Kapurthala, Jalandhar and Nawanshehar have shown the highest increase in child sex ratio. Bathinda, the Badals territory and parliamentary constituency of Dy. CM's wife Harsimrat Kaur Badal has the lowest child sex ratio of 865, which has fallen down by 5 points since the last census. It is the only district of the state to have recorded a negative trend. It was 870 in the 2001 census.

[nav1minhas]

mainu ek gall dasso , j koi maa baap apni kudi nu puttan wang palda ha, putra wang samaj daha, ohi kudia apne parents di izzat roldi ha ta, ohna te ki betdi aaa.?????oh fir app hi soachde aaa k kudi kyon jammi sade!!
kise da munda mada hove ta parents di bazeti hundi aaa. kise di kudi madi nikle ta thuhanuu app nu pata aaa.
es laie jo kudia mardia ne ohna vaste jyada kudia hi jimmewar ne,.

[Sarvar_Gill]

^^ maarha tah koi vi nikkal sakda ae... puttar vi teh dhee vi... naale jo bachi aje jammi vi nahi ohde baare eh soch laina ke eh vaddi ho ke sadi izzat rol dewegi, bilkul hi na-insaafi ae...

ik hor gall, je dhee kidhre inter-caste marriage di gall kar dewe tah maa-baap di izzat rul jaandi ae te puttar chaahe saamhne baith ke sharaab peenda rahe tah koi chakkar nahi... es da hall dheeyaan nu nafrat karke nahi balke apni soch badalke hona ae...

[TanuHerman]

had something to share with u all so thoúght to post it here :-

"Jehre kukh wich katal karan dheeyan oh Maape ni hunde"
"Jehre bin gal ton tutt jan oh Rishte Natte ni hunde"
"Kehan Seyane jhooth diyan koi neeha nayi hundiya""
"Jo Maapeyan di pagg rooldeeyan oh "DHEEYAN" ni hundiya""

An another story ...
A Girl and a Boy went to court for registering their marriage against their parents will but just before signing the WEDDING CERTIFICATE girl left court and ran back to hug her DAD coz she didn't wanted to make her Parents hurt as same she had seen in a poster there on the wall showing " A RESTLESS SOUL OF FATHER CRYING OUTSIDE HIS OWN GRAVE AND MOANING TO GOD: isi din ko dekh paane ki himmat na thi mujhme, kyu mere ghar janam diya beti ko"
Sad to listen but hard to accept a story of DEAD PARENTS HURT OF THEIR CHILDREN
"Thaam haath jise badna sikhaaya,
Ye kaisa mod uske jiwan me aya,
Bhuul chali kar hume khud se praaya,
Kyu ni humne ise jiite jii tha dafnaaya"

We ourself can stop FEMALE FOETICIDE by giving respect to feelings of our elders
read it,believe it,understand it,follow it
Maa Da Pyaar te Baap Da Dulaar Nahi Milna Dubara ..

[Sarvar_Gill]

^^ mainu ehi gall samajh nhi aaondi: putt court marriage kare tah koi chakkar nhi... teh je dhee kare tah maa-peyaan di izzat kharaab....??