Female Foeticide - Kyu mardiya ne kudiya?

[Bling-Singh]

1st case dowry
2nd case girl jad born hundi a te curse but je munda hoya te blessing
3rd case kuri ne duje ghar jana a te is karke us nu education nai deni ghare rakhna apna gussa us te kadna jive oh insaan nai koi janwar hunda


n gussa aunda aj kal oh bazurga te jehre kehnde ne k kuri nu education nai deni n kuri te jutti wangu a paira thale hi changi rehndi a

sarea ne hi sunea hoya ke kuri chameleon wangu rang watta lendi a (mizra sahiba' case),, but je munde de 100 affairs hon oda kuch ni.... lol

samjh na awe k loki ure ki saabit karan lage hoe ne )

[Sukh Dhaliwal]

Har roop vich kyo nimdi hai Aurat kyo kyo ?
Kuj socho ena bare v
Kyo songs vich kudiyan nu jayadatar dhokebaaj hi darsya janda hai,Durga Mata,Mai Bhago de phakk vanggu kyo ni dhekde.Kyo lalachi lok daj de lai ena nu maar rahe ne,kyo kudiyan nu janam to phela hi mari janne aaa Kyo?,Sansaar di janamdati nu ajj har passiyo mada darsonde ha kyo?Lacharta virud kyo Aurat varg ne chup dhari hoyi a kyo?,Print media,Mobile companies,Internet sare hi aurat de kirdaar nu ganda kr rahe ne Kyo ?.Par badi hairani di gal hai k Aurat naal eni Jayadti hon de vhabjood v koi Aurat jathebandi isda virod nhi kr rahi kyo ? kyo chup ne.sanu odo jagna pave ga jado pani siro lang gaya.Kuj socho ena bare v?
avo apa sare rall mill k is lai awaaj uthaiye

[HSandhu]

Sukh, eh aapni kaum di bahut hi vaddi Badkismati hai.....Jadon ke Guru Sahebaan ne vi keha hai "So Kyun Manda akhiye, Jitt jammey Rajaan"...But afsos.....afsos....afsos apni kaum nu akal nahin aundi...Theek hai ki hun kudi Maaraan di ginti shayad ghatt rahi hai, but future tuhaadey hatth hai je current Generation te future Generations Hamblaa maaran, taa Kurhiyaa maaran da kamm bilkul rukk sakda hai....But key is not to have just discussion on paper/media but act the same way as well... or I should say "WALK THE TALK".

[SK Aulakh]

1) KURIAA NU AAKHIR KU MAAR DINDE NE LOK?
_becuz they are not fit enough to survive in our society, they totally depend on men, and men do not want more and more burden!!

2)iss nu kive rokeyaa ja skda hai?
eh samay de naal naal change aaun naal rukega, koi jinna mrji kehnda rahe, kanun sakht ho v jaan ta jo kuri dhakke naal es dharti te janam layegi nehash hee manni jayegi so lokaa de dimag ch kuriaa lyee nafrt nahi kadhi ja skdi, eh time naal hee solve hoyegi problem

3)ki dhiaan da smaaj te koi hakk nahi?
-dhiaan da smaaj te braabr da hakk hai, pr sadde lokaa di bdkismti hai k population de 50% hisse nu bekaar krke rakheyaa hai sirf aapni ego khaatir, te ohda nateeja sabhde saahmne hai, te hindustan ek pachhreyaa hoyeaa mulk hai, smajik kadraa kimta da hokaa asi bahut dinde haa, pr khokhlaa smaaj hai

4)ki kuriaa sachi maapeyaa te bojh ne?
_nahi ji, koi kise te bojh nahi hai, eh ek vaar fir saddi ego hai, k asi ekk dooje lyee safl hon de maukay bnaun di thaan ek dooje de raah ch atklaan laaunde haa, mard prdhaan smaaj vich mard kde nahi chahega k osdi property kise de ghar jaave, kuriaa ne kyunki praaye ghr hee jana hunda hai so ghaate wala saudaa!!

5)isda jimmevaar kaun??
isday jimmevar oh lok ne jo sadde smaaj ch doojeyaa di life nu cntrl krde ne, ghar de mukhiaa wade wadere,jihna ne eh reet tori, te ajj eh ghaltfehmi aapne dimagaa cho kadhan lyee asi lok jaddojehad kar rahe haan, par smaajik change ekdum nahi aundi.

6)punjab iss da hall labh reha hai??
maaf krna pr menoo ni lgda k punjab hall labh rehaa hai, bahut ghat lok es passe suchet ne, j oh kuriaa nu na marn baare soch rahe ne ta sirf es krke ke ohna nu kuria te taras aundaa hai, ja fer ohna nu kl nu intrcast marriages na krniaa pein!!
asi jo survey ho rahe ne ohna de vich jo kuri munde di ratio hai ohde to dar gaye haan tusi punjab ch thaan thaan likheyaa prh skde ho k j dhiaan nu maroge ta noonhaa kitho liaavoge, mtlb mundeyaa pichhe kuriaa di ginti ght rahi hai,so lok dar gaye ne, odaa kuriaa di ginti ghtdi rahe kise nu koi frk nahi pendaa, ehi sach hai, so punjab paddhr te koi hall kuriaa lyee nahi ho rehaa!! jehre lok insaan ne ohna nu es topic di lorh v nahi, te jo haivaan ne ohna nu tusi jina mrji smjaa lao oh dhiaan v nahi denge, so time naal hee hall hovegi es problem kyunki kise inqlaab lyee ta asi tyaar nahi lgde so ek hall ehi hai k nijji padhar te jithe v pta lgda hai oothe kanooni taur te lokaa te shikanjaa kaseyaa jaaye, te kurimara da boycott kita jaae

[sabi]

nice post SK !!!

[harkaran_singh]

bhut hi wadiya share kita hai sk g...
thnx

[Navman]

main sab naal sehmat a k kudian nu nai marna chahida kudian nu zada tar dadian n mawa hi marwaundian.....main apna hi kissa dasdi a....main apne parents di first daughter a jan kehlo apne dadkian de ghar ch jami pehli beti.....mere dad v do brothers hi ne....mera birth hon te mere hi relatives ne keha k beti a tusi marwa dao....even after just few seconds of my birth ....but mere mom ne kadi nai ih chahya n mere dad ne v ihi keha beti a par mere lai sab ton anmol a......like mere dad ne meri lohri v pai.....mainu khushi a k i got parents like dat.....n aj v mere ghar ch meri importance kai vari mere brother ton vadh jandi....
par ik gal ih v a k shayad jihna mawa nu apni zindagi da vadhia experience nai hunda shayad ohna da darna kite jayaz v a...jiven tusi ajkal de rape case hi lai lao.....pher jiven kise kudi de naal iven da hadsa ho jave oh kadi nai chahugi k ohde kadi kudi v hove......but ik sachai ih v a k chahe ih gal luki chipi hove par kaiyan ghara ch apnian bhaina, dheeyan, potiyan, dotiyan, bhanjian..bhatijian te apne hi ghar de bandian di akh kharab ho jandi hai.....ajkal kine cases sunan nu milde ne iho jehe...pher kiven koi sochunga k ohde kudi hove ohde apne hi bhra jan peo jan mama jan chacha iven kuj kare te oh loka nu dasn jogian v na hon bas chup karke seh jaan......

[Ajay Sandhu]

Navman ih ik kourha sach hai, Jo tusi likhia ih apne pindan ch aksar waparda,

[Rubinder Kahlon]

sat sri akaal ji saarean nu

kyu mardian ne kudian?

reason

ajjkal jo chal reha hai ke kudiyan aapni marzi naal vyaah karwa rahian ne parents di izzat da maada jinna vi khyaal nai kardian aapne peo di pagg nu daag laundian ne samaaj de hisaab naal aje munde ne eho jehi kartoot kiti hove taan enaa fark nai penda par je dhee kare enj taan maa peo da sir sharam naal jhuk janda hai saare paaseo maa peo nu mehne sunne pende han

main aapni gal dasaan te mainu love marriage shabad ton hi nafrat hai gussa na kareyo koyi main aapni rai ditti

haan je kise nu eni payi hai love marriage karaun di taan pehlaan parents nu agge rakho onaa kolon puchho aksar tohade parents ne tohada changa hi sochde honge par nai ajjkal di generation aapni marzi naal marriage karwa rahi hai
jehra ke ik evi kaaran hai dheeyan maaran da

eh cheez taan mere khyaal naal edaan hi theek ho sakdi hai je dheeyan aapne maa peo di izzat karan onaa da kehna manan mundeyan nu vi eh akal chahidi hai
mundean nu eh gal sochni chahidi hai ke kal nu tohadi bhen love marriage karauni chaave te, mainu eh vi pata ke mostly munde os munde nu vaddan nu firange ke edi himmat kidaan hoyi saadi bhen naal vyaah karaun wali gal karan di, par onaa nu eh vi sochna chahida ke jo kamm tusi kar rahe ho ki oh theek hai agli vi kise di bhen aa dhee aa

so es karke dovan nu eh sochna chahida mundean te kudiyan nu ke parents de khilaaf nai jana, es taraan vi kudiyan nu maaran ton rokeya ja sakda hai aape jadon dheeyan maapean di izzat da khyaal karangian te maape vi nai maarange dheeyan nu

kyoki maape doojean diyan dheeyan wal jehrian eh kamm kardian ne vekhke sochde ne ke kal nu saadi dhee eho jeha koi kamm na kare jis naal saanu sharamsaar hona pave es karke evi ik kaaran hai ke oh dheeyan nu maar dinde ne janam ton pehlan

main eh nai keh reha dhee kalli kasoorvaar hundi hai munda vi hunda par samaaj dhee nu jyada manda kasoorvaar hun samaaj nu te samajaya kidaan jaave par dhee te samaj sakdi hai

so dheeyan hi dheeyan nu bacha sakdian.

[Ratish]

Kahlon Saab tusi theek keha par eh sab kudian jan mundy soccaity ch aa ke sikhde...es lailaj bimari di iko jad te iko ilaj hai...je aapni genreation sirf eh soche ki munde te kuri vich koi farak nahin....base thik ho gaya tan aape sab theek ho ju....

[jagwinder15]

Yesterday,i received a very good Email from one of ma friend..i wana share it here..

Making a Point

A worried woman went to her gynecologist and said:
'Doctor, I have a serious problem and desperately need your help! My baby is not even 1 year old and I'm pregnant again. I don't want kids so close together.


So the doctor said: 'Ok and what do you want me to do?'
She said: 'I want you to end my pregnancy, and I'm counting on your help with this.'
The doctor thought for a little, and after some silence he said to the lady: 'I think I have a better solution for your problem. It's less dangerous for you too.'
She smiled, thinking that the doctor was going to accept her request.
Then he continued: 'You see, in order for you not to have to take care 2 babies at the same time, let's kill the one in your arms.
This way, you could rest some before the other one is born. If we're going to kill one of them, it doesn't matter which one it is.
There would be no risk for your body if you chose the one in your arms.



The lady was horrified and said: 'No doctor! How terrible! It's a crime to kill a child!
'I agree', the doctor replied. 'But you seemed to be OK with it, so I thought maybe that was the best solution.
The doctor smiled, realizing that he had made his point.
He convinced the mom that there is no difference in killing a child that's already been born and one that's still in the womb.
The crime is the same!

[dollysandhu]

maing a point - ncie pos jagwinder

last pic is so cute

[5982]

chotti soch ... straight and simple

[KBadesha]

first of all people need to change their choti soch. its all in gods hand munda or kuri. and this is going againt the nature, and we all know what happens when humans think they are god. second india has always been number one in missuseing all the technology that is available in the 21st century. the ultrasound is there so we can see the development of the baby, and correct any medical problems so lives can be saved, either it the mom or the baby. but no we have turned this amazing invention into a killing machine. why because first we blame a woman for having a girl, or keep having girls. but when in reality its the male whose chromosomes decide if it is going to be a girl or a boy. don't blame the wife or the noonj if she can't give u boys. its the male that is responsible for the gender of the baby. also villagers need to learn the cycle of pregnancy. they need to know baby doesn't start living from the day it is born. it is living the day it was implanted in a mother's utereus.

this whole mard pradhan society needs to be changed, and people should have kids when they are ready and should have kids because they want to have kids. not just they got married, and ooooppppssss that's wat happens when two people get together. they need to have kids for themselves not fopr the dada or dadi or nana or nani. they should have kids, becasue they want to bring a life into this world that will be an individual. raise them as an individual. oor people have too many expectations. oh we need a boy, cuz when we grow old we need a sahara. is jindgi da ta ik mint da bharosa nahi tey budapa kis ne dekhiya. how do u know that u r kids r gonna outlive u and they will take care of u. maybe god has other plans, if that kid leave this world brfore you. what are they gonna do then, have they ever thought about that.

jey saadi soch badal javey tan dhiyan bhoj nahi lagan giya. aasi baccha born v nahi hon denday tey us dey career, us de saadi, tey apney old age de sharey bastey sochan lag jandey haan. live life as it comes. we all have a purpose, but for apney people the purpose seems to be viah karo, have kids and put a lot of expectations on our kids. but don't give them freedom of choice. because we make them feel so guilty that their life is indebted to us. that's why we want boys, because girls are gonna get married and leave. and this also need to change. just because the girl got married doen't mean she is done with her parents. we need to let people live as individuals.

stop misuseing technology people, educate the people around you. make peer groups in villages, that should go out and spread light to people that don;t know this. we are fortuneate to have this education. lets teach the less fortuneate one. if we can change one person that is one life saved. I am not familiar with indian laws, because i don't live in india. they need to pass the law anyone that kills a fetus be it doctor or a parent will get jail time. this needs to stop. before its too late...............

[jasjit]

lokan de dimag ch ihi gal was gayi hai kudiya ho gayi te sade te kina bhoj pavega pehla isnu paravaga fir isda viah karaga . mostly garib lok hi kudiyan marde ne coz ohna nu hunda ki sade kol te paise di agge kami hai asi kudi kive palage . je munda hove te chalo ghato ghat nal kam te karavge . ihi soch hai jihdi sab to vaddi problem kardia ne

[rane]

and people should have kids when they are ready and should have kids because they want to have kids. not just they got married, and ooooppppssss that's wat happens when two people get together. they need to have kids for themselves not fopr the dada or dadi or nana or nani. they should have kids, becasue they want to bring a life into this world that will be an individual.

we all have a purpose, but for apney people the purpose seems to be viah karo, have kids and put a lot of expectations on our kids. but don't give them freedom of choice. because we make them feel so guilty that their life is indebted to us. that's why we want boys, because girls are gonna get married and leave. and this also need to change. just because the girl got married doen't mean she is done with her parents. we need to let people live as individuals.

m sorry for such long quotes.. but KBadesha i salute u.. what a wonderful post.. dude.. u r lucky k u r not here in india.. here the situation is much more than worst.

[parsinni]

@KBadesha: i am sorry i dunnow are u he or she.. but i am really impressed by ur post above. this is exactly what i think..
nobody cares for u.. individual identity naam di cheej e ni exist karn dende ethe. everybody tries to suppress u with this guilt k aj tusi jo v ho sadi bdaulat ho.. parents v ta kdi bache hunde aa.. even oh v ona stages cho pass kite hunde fer y not oh apne bachia di gal nu ni samjhde.. here in India every second couple faces this very issue of kids, they are forced by their parents to have one when they are not ready at all.. and mostly such circumstances lead to ladaai chagda and finally split ups.

[jimmymandair1985]

well explained .. Jagwinder and badesha ji ..
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Author: ਮਲਕੀਤ ਸਿੰਘ ਸੰਧੂ, ਅਲਕੜਾ

[rane]

bahut vadiya poem share kiti aa jimmi..but ete koi amal kre ta na

[jimmymandair1985]

bahut vadiya poem share kiti aa jimmi..but ete koi amal kre ta na

par je isnu koi dhyan naal parhe te samjhe.. tan eh poem bande di soch badal skdi aa ..