manmeet kaur wrote:@ manvir jatt..
mainu tuhada point samjh aa gya si..
bt mai sirf ehi kehna si k tusi kise de pyar te doubt nai kar sakde..jis person ne apni jaan he de diti hoe...
@ manmeet
person ne jaan ditti nahi gawayi hai , people just kill for their honour , maran wale bande nu nahi pata hunda ke usnu maarya ja sakda otherwise if given a chance or option to choose i bet they will go for their life than their love.
true love is not getting eloped with that person, its doing something in life , achieving something that convinces his or her parents that u r right choice
in most of the cases in these so called true love girls and guys dont have proper education , dont have proper job and stable foundation in life.
if i had to do the same thing i would rather get a decent job and than take a stand and tell my and her parents that i am what u r looking for. gharo bhajjna koi sacha pyaar nahi te na hi bahadri hai. and in punjab i know its all fake ashiqui coz i have seen it in colleges but western media thinks its violation of human rights but in reality its all impact of our miss pooja bhainji's songs on young minds.
a girl from my school took 10 lakh cash n jewellry from her house and eloped with some guy , if her parents kill her now it will be honour killing and there will be big hue n cry over it
BUT lets see the other side of story
she is in grade 11th , stole money , the guy is in either grade 11 or 12 . Now what are the chances that its true love and they will survive on their own and love each other forever ? And not to mention intercaste too ,
sounds too extreme
well here u go a girl eloped with guy , both study in college , same class.love each other a lot
lets look at the other side guy's parents pay for his tution , expenses , his pocket money. he is doing bachelors and like other unemployed degree holders he hardly has any future of making it big , unless he works hard now and try to do something but no he is in love with this girl and hardly have time for anything .
AND ALSO REGARDING MUSLIM HONOUR KILLINGS
many of the posts were pointing at me saying how can i differentiate between sikh and muslims in this case
well muslim honour killings are of two types , muslims outside their country tryin to marry their kids to someone from their own country and when kids saying no than killing them
or muslims in pakistan killing or throwing acid on their wives questioning their chastity . this is real honour killing. and in 99.99% of the cases guys are drunk and their wives die for no reason.
i am not fan of honour killing but atleast give ur parents a chance , prove urself and let them decide.
You know whats real honour killing , when punjabis take money from their parents , live the best life possible even though their parents work hard for it and deep inside they are dying and killing themselves making sacrifices for their kids and after that kids run away with their true love killing the very people who love them most.